Thank you for sharing your experience. Lichen & Lace Rustic is definitely a very traditional, woolly yarn and can feel quite rustic and stiff both in the skein and to the hand before blocking. This is part of its minimally processed, woolen-spun character and hand-dyed finish. One of the reasons it’s so beloved by our Thistlers is the wonderful transformation that happens once it’s washed and blocked, the yarn blooms and softens beautifully. We’re sorry the initial feel wasn’t what you were hoping for! If you enjoy the character of a rustic wool but prefer something softer to the hand, WoolDreamers Cautiva is another lovely 100% wool option we’d suggest trying. We really appreciate you taking the time to share your experience.